BBF

Valentines Day was nice, although one might say its too commercialized nowadays. So if its for you, its for you and if its not, then roll with it anyway because its going to be everywhere anyhoo. Sometimes I think about Love...what is it. Why do people "fall in love" and why do they fall out of it. I've seen couples who've been together for like 8 years and they end up going their separate ways in the end. It scares me sometimes that everything can be so unpredictable. Here today, gone tomorrow. Recently a friend's brother passed away very suddenly, I can only imagine the kind of hurt the family and his girlfriend must feel, for someone they love to be gone the next day without any warning. Happily in love this year and the next year, they found someone else. Have you ever thought about it? 

Btw I just threw a cardboard ball across the room and it landed right straight into the paper bin. Yes! Score!

Sometimes these thoughts can get very overwhelming. Lots of "what ifs". What if this happens, what if that happens, what if my girlfriend meets a rich banker and ditches me...What if my boyfriend loses his job and cant buy me branded bags anymore? What if my girlfriend...what if my boyfriend falls into a man hole and becomes paralysed? What if what if what if. Argh the list is endless. I've actually heard of couples who fight because the guy doesnt earn enough money to support the girl's monthly shopping expenditure. There are couples like that, and there is also us. My boyfriend and I fought once because of a fat man on the train. But anyway I realised that there is no textbook answer to any of these questions. Life itself is a journey and its the same with love relationships. Theres no answer or solution to any what if questions until it happens. One thing might work for someone but might be disastrous to another. Life itself is so short right, why worry so much about the future when you're in the present. If its not raining, dont carry an open umbrella preparing for rain, enjoy the sun! When it rains, then ok lets deal with it. But just know that after rain, usually comes sunshine again. 

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My valentines day was very nice. 

It involved: 

Candlelight

Fireworks

Steak

Moving moon

Planning an escape route that involves little parkour

Futuristic playground

Evil bridge

Radioactive water

Keep away, growing plants

Shoulders

Home

Glue dots 

Before flowers....AFTER FLOWERS!!!!! hahahahhahhaha Well, but anyway single or attached, water your lawn so the grass is always greener on your side. ;)